you need to be earnest. you need to tell people that you love them. you need to speak on how you’re feeling honestly. you need to be sentimental. you need to stop letting the fear of other people laughing at you have so much control over how you express yourself. you need to get over yourself. you need to be embarrassing but true.
(via dweebsicle)
AnonymousWhat exactly do you mean by “don’t be like keekee”? I don’t understand what you’re insinuating.
I think whenever someone feels like they’re ready to be married, is a good time for them to get married. Quite frankly I don’t know the ins and outs of others relationshipships, and I don’t try to pretend to. Your PFC is not developed until you’re 25, so you tend to make less rational decisions before then. I think majority of people tend to know themselves better around 30. For some people that comes earlier.. and for others when they know, they know. There are many factors that play into these two decisions.
Personally I don’t have a goal of getting married, nor do I want kids. I’d be open to getting married If it was of interest to someone I deeply cared about, but I don’t know what that looks like quite yet. I feel no pressure to do either. I’m just living life.
